Caregiving
For adult children and spouses helping someone they love, from the first conversation to finding a break.
3 in-depth guides
How to talk with a parent about getting help at home
A practical guide for adult children in New Jersey: the signs it is time, how to open the conversation, what to avoid, and the first calls to make.
Help for family caregivers in NJ: respite, leave and support
New Jersey helps pay for breaks, adult day care and paid leave for people caring for an older relative. Here is who qualifies, what it covers and how to apply.
When to call a geriatric care manager, and what they actually do
A care manager is a professional guide for families facing aging, illness or a sudden crisis. Here is what they do, what to ask, and how to find a good one in New Jersey.
Questions people ask
What if my parent refuses to talk about it?
Give it time and try again in a few weeks. Focus on one small, practical change rather than the big picture. Some parents hear the same idea more easily from their doctor, a clergy member or a care manager.
Who do I call in New Jersey to find local services for my parent?
Call the Aging and Disability Resource Connection at 1-877-222-3737. You will be connected to the county office on aging where your parent lives.
Does the Statewide Respite Care Program look at my income or my parent's?
It looks at the income and assets of the person receiving care (and their spouse). In 2026 the limit is $2,982 a month in gross income for a single person and $5,964 for a couple, with liquid assets up to $40,000 or $60,000.
How much does NJ Family Leave Insurance pay in 2026?
It pays 85% of your average weekly wage, up to a maximum of $1,119 a week, for up to 12 weeks of continuous leave or 56 separate days in a 12-month period.
Does Medicare pay for a geriatric care manager?
No. Private care management is not covered by Medicare. Some long-term care insurance policies reimburse part of the cost, so check your policy.
Is a care manager the same as a home health aide?
No. An aide provides hands-on care such as bathing and meals. A care manager is a licensed professional who assesses, plans and coordinates all of the care, including aides.
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